You will never gain the security you search for
I’ve grown up in an enviroment where it’s important to gain some level of security for your own future, more important than being free and happy right now. It’s not that they disallowed me to be free and happy. For them it’s just much more important to see me walking on a safe part with a secure future, then walking on a free and happy path with no “real secure future outcome visible” for them. But that’s because they are not in my head, where only I am.
I’ve come to the realization, that security is more of a feeling, more of a mindset, than the posession of something. Basically it’s trusting yourself more than fearing the future. Also now where I’ve adopted the law of attraction lifestyle, I’m gaining a deeper understanding of why I should feel secure before I get the manifestational evidence of security.
So what would be the best for me and for my family to do?
It’s easy now for me to see:
I want to feel secure and safe right now, even improving that state of being and work with that mindset towards the future. Then there will be manifestational evidence for my family, that I can show them and that’s alright with me. But I can’t be focused on the evidence first, because this would build up resistance. With resistance there will be no manifestation, and with resistance there is no true feeling of security, is it?
Feel Secure First. Evidence Comes After.
It’s hard for people who don’t want to trust blindly towards something, they’ve never seen with their eyes. There is no evidence but your feelings and that’s what you should focus on only. Just improve your secure feeling. Then the manifestation will come, but it must be irrelevant to you if there’s evidence. The most important thing to you must be your feeling! You need to realize that what you’re seeking is not the evidence of security, but the feeling that the evidence would give you. So stop searching for the evidence and “fake it, till you make it” like they say.
Remember, it’s all about your reality, your feelings and your life experience. You don’t owe anything to anyone. It’s all about you in the first line. If you don’t feel good, you can’t help anyone feel better.